2017年4月22日星期六

If Not Me, Then Who? If Not Now, Then When? Part 2


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“在我彷徨无助的时候,我坚定地问我自己:若不是我, 是谁? 若不是现在, 又是何时?”

人们都想成为自己所想成为的人, 但他们往往都会忽略掉一个重要的一点: 你为了你的梦想做了什么? 

每一个人都希望成为一个对人生负责任的人, 但现在, 有些人可能已经忘记了他们想成为他们想成为的人的初衷

假设说一个人想成为一个对社会有贡献的人, 他是为了什么?为了出名? 为了炫耀自己的荣耀? 亦或是只是单纯地想为这社会有所付出? 不管是什么理由, 若你没有勇敢地踏出自己人生仅有的框框, 那么一切将化为虚无。 

可能你在心里想着, 我想成为一名医生! 但在你选择明确的当儿,你却犹豫不决了。 我能成为一名医生吗? 你的犹豫使你的人生陷入了空白的画面。 算了, 我的科学不好, 就不做医生了吧! 这证明了, 你不是坚定地打算成为一名真正的医生, 而是只实行了所谓的口头说说而已。

在这里说一句, 很多人以为自己做不到他们想要做到的事, 因此荒废了他们宝贵的人生, 为什么他们不要试着跳出他们的舒适圈呢? 或许, 你想成为一位伟大的医生, 但你连尝试都没有就放弃了; 或者说你想成为一名伟大的医生, 但是你认为要做一名医生就不用读会计学,经济学了。 是这样的吗? 选择稀少的科目, 你的前途也许也变得更加渺小了。 为什么要这样说? 因为世界每天都在改变, 人也会改变, 你哪知道突然有一天你发现你对会计学很感兴趣, 想投入会计课程里头发展, 但一切都太迟了。 那是因为你根本就没有尝试过, 所以你不能理解其中的奥妙。 

我们的年龄在不断的增长,时间也在不断地流逝。 当你犹豫不决或者对自己的人生充满问号的时候, 不妨问问自己: “如果不是我, 那又是谁? 如果不是现在, 那又是何时?” 去吧! 别再停歇不前了, 时间不会因你而停留。 想做什么, 就大胆地去做, 别找千方百计的理由使自己停在人生的十字路口, 你若没有尝试, 当你老了, 你会感到后悔, 感到懊恼, 感到失落。 

所以,你究竟还在原地等待些什么?

If Not Me, Then Who? If Not Now, Then When? Part 1


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“在我彷徨无助的时候,我坚定地问我自己:若不是我, 是谁? 若不是现在, 又是何时?”

Our Power issue is out this month – exploring the ‘new female power’ with Hillary Clinton leading from the front as our cover star.

That’s why we are on our feet applauding actress Emma Watson for her stirring speech for the UN this week.

The Harry Potter star has launched a United Nations equality campaign in New York called HeForShe, in her capacity as UN women goodwill ambassador.

"My recent research has shown me that 'feminism' has become an unpopular word. Women are choosing not to identify as feminists ... Why has the word become such an unpopular one?" she asked.
"I think it is right I am paid the same as my male counterparts. I think it is right that I should make decisions about my own body. I think it is right that women be involved on my behalf in the policies and decisions that affect my life. I think it is right that socially, I am afforded the same respect as men."

Watson is in good company.  “Feminism is needed,” says Hillary Clinton, in our cover interview this month. “ I always say yes when people ask : Are you a feminist?” If you look at the dictionary meaning, it is someone someone who believes in the full and equal participation of women in the economy, in society, in politics, in every aspect of our lives together.” 

Watson is working with The United Nations agency to launch a global campaign to get 100,000 men and boys involved in the fight to achieve gender equality.

She is encouraging us all to step up, be seen. Together we can make a difference. “You might think: who is this Harry Potter girl? What is she doing at the UN? I’ve been asking myself the same thing. All I know is that I care about this problem and I want to make it better. And having seen what I’ve seen and given the chance, I feel it is my responsibility to say something. Statesman Edmund Burke said, 'all that is needed for the forces of evil to triumph is for good men and women to do nothing'.

In my nervousness for this speech and in my moments of doubt, I told myself firmly: if not me, who? If not now, when?”

She extends her invitation to both men and women. “Men, I would like to give this opportunity to extend your formal invitation. Gender equality is your issue, too. Because to date, I’ve seen my father’s role as a parent being valued less by society. I’ve seen young men suffering from mental illness, unable to ask for help for fear it would make them less of a man. In fact, in the UK, suicide is the biggest killer of men between 20 to 49, eclipsing road accidents, cancer and heart disease. I’ve seen men fragile and insecure by what constitutes male success. Men don’t have the benefits of equality, either.

We don’t often talk about men being imprisoned by gender stereotypes, but I can see that they are. When they are free, things will change for women as a natural consequence. If men don’t have to be aggressive in order to be accepted, women won’t feel compelled to be submissive. If men don’t have to control, women won’t have to be controlled.

Both men and women should feel free to be sensitive. Both men and women should feel free to be strong. It is time that we all see gender as a spectrum instead of two sets of opposing ideals. We should stop defining each other by what we are not and start defining ourselves by who we are.'

And so say all of us.

Website Resource:https://www.psychologies.co.uk/emma-watson-if-not-me-who-if-not-now-when